She
 invited us to come to an informational meeting that an
 adoptive family was giving at their church it was on Sunday 
night...ummm I work
 weekends....no one will work for me...Tim would NEVER  adopt....our 
family is COMPLETE....so many excuses I tried to use!!   The closer it 
got to the meeting the more we felt we might like to go.  I asked a 
couple people at work if they would be interested in working...nope, not
 surprising its IMPOSSIBLE  to get someone to work a Sunday for 
me....It's NOT gonna happen. So I give up...we already KNOW we are done 
having kids anyway....there is no use in going to the 
meeting!!!!  Well....GOD had other plans!   A day or two before the 
meeting I get a call...it's from a fellow coworker(someone I hadn't 
asked...or even considered because this person NEVER works extra! 
NEVER!) She says I hear you would like to go to a meeting Sunday and I'd
 like to work for you so you can go!!!!  WHAT???
So we are going  to the meeting---we are gonna go to hush Paula, but that's it! Our family is COMPLETE!
We
 get there and other people that are in the process of adopting are 
there, they are all normal ordinary people like we are. Not super rich 
or super stars they are just ordinary people that are going to adopt! 
Really? That's possible? I went to the restroom and saw Jackie there 
with her little 2 year old from China..they were at the sink and I 
suddenly felt this overwhelming feeling I hadn't felt before...I 
couldn't look at them, because if I did I would have cried right there 
in the bathroom.
We
 are sitting in the meeting and hearing all the testimonies of these 
"ordinary" people, then Jackie
 stands up....she brought some visual aids----her children from 
Guatemala and China! She tells her story and shows us her beautiful 
children. I cried through this whole meeting. I had never felt anything 
like this before. God had put all these things together so that we could
 be here with these people! So we could learn about this wonderful thing
 called adoption---He had even taken care of finding someone to work for
 me!!
We
 left and I asked Tim what he thought. I'm nervous at this point I'm 
thinking I would like to do this but we both have to want it! He says we
 should talk with the boys, we should decide as a family. We sat the 
boys down when we got home and asked what they would think if we decided
 to adopt them a sister...they both said "we aren't sure why that is 
even a question. There are babies that
 need homes and we want a baby...we
 should do it!"
That
 was Sunday night....Monday morning we called a homestudy agency, filled
 out the application with FTIA for China and called all our family and 
friends and told them we were expecting a baby!;) We started the crazy 
paper-chase and decided on a name!
 Ava Christine would be our daughter!
On
 November 17, 2005 we were officially LID (log in date) for China! we 
thought it would be a 6 month
 wait....but Gods plan is perfect and our daughter was born January 14, 
2007 in China. We got THE CALL August 2, 2007. 
Ava's Gotcha day was October 14, 2007
 
 
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